GENERAL AUDIENCE POPE
FRANCIS
Saint
Peter's Square
Wednesday, 5 August 2015
Wednesday, 5 August 2015
The
family - 21. Wounded families (II)
Dear Brothers and Sisters, Good
morning!
With this catechesis we return to
our reflection on the family. After speaking the last time about families
wounded due to misunderstandings between spouses, today I would like to focus
our attention on another reality: how to take care of those who, after an
irreversible failure of their matrimonial bond, have entered into a new union.
The Church is fully aware that
such a situation is contrary to the Christian Sacrament. However, her gaze as a
teacher always draws from a mother’s heart; a heart which, enlivened by the
Holy Spirit, always seeks the good and the salvation of the people. This is why
she feels obliged, “for the sake of truth”, to “exercise careful discernment of
situations”. This is how St John Paul II expressed it in the
Apostolic Exhortation Familiaris Consortio (n. 84),
giving as an example the difference between one subjected to separation
compared to one who has caused it. This discernment has to be made.
If we then also look at these new
bonds through the eyes of the young sons and daughters — and the little ones
watch — through the eyes of the children, we are aware of a greater urgency to
foster a true welcome for these families in our communities. For this reason it
is important that the style of the community, its language, its attitudes,
always be attentive to people, starting with the little ones. They are the ones
who suffer the most in these situations. After all, how can we encourage these
parents to do everything possible to raise their children in the Christian
life, to give them an example of committed and exercised faith, if we keep them
at arm’s length from the life of the community, as if they are excommunicated?
We must act in a way so as not to add even more to the burdens which the
children in these situations already feel they have to bear! Unfortunately, the
number of these children and youth is really large. It is important for them to
feel the Church as loving mother to all, always ready to listen and to meet.
In these decades, in truth, the
Church has been neither insensitive nor lazy. Thanks to the in-depth analysis
performed by Pastors, led and guided by my Predecessors, the awareness has
truly grown that it is necessary to have a fraternal and attentive welcome, in
love and in truth, of the baptized who have established a new relationship of
cohabitation after the failure of the marital sacrament; in fact, these persons
are by no means excommunicated — they are not excommunicated! — and they should
absolutely not be treated as such: they are still a part of the Church.
Pope Benedict XVI spoke
about this question, calling for careful discernment and wise pastoral
accompaniment, knowing that there are no “simple solutions” (Speech at
the Seventh World Meeting of Families, Milan, 2 June 2012, answer n.
5). Here the repeated call to Pastors to openly and consistently demonstrate
the community’s willingness to welcome them and encourage them, so they may
increasingly live and develop their membership in Christ and in the Church
through prayer, by listening to the Word of God, by attending the liturgy,
through the Christian education of their children, through charity and service
to the poor, through the commitment to justice and peace.
The biblical icon of the Good
Shepherd (Jn 10:11-18) summarizes the mission that Jesus received from the
Father: that of giving his life for the sheep. This attitude is also a model
for the Church, which embraces her children as a mother who gives her life for
them. “The Church is called to be the house of the Father, with doors always
wide open”.... No closed doors! No closed doors! “Everyone can share in some
way in the life of the Church; everyone can be part of the community”.... The
Church “is the house of the Father, where there is a place for everyone, with
all their problems” (Ap. Exhort. Evangelii Gaudium, n. 47).
In the same way all Christians
are called to imitate the Good Shepherd. Especially Christian families can
cooperate with Him by taking care of wounded families, accompanying them in the
life of faith of the community. Each one must do his part in taking on the
attitude of the Good Shepherd, who knows each one of his sheep and excludes no
one from his infinitive love!
Special greetings:
I offer an affectionate greeting
to all the English-speaking pilgrims and visitors present at today’s
Audience, including those from England, South Africa, China and the United
States. May your stay in the Eternal City confirm you in love for our Lord, and
may he make you his witnesses, especially for families who feel separated from
the Church. May God bless you all! I address a special thought to young
people, to the sick and to newlyweds. Today we
celebrate the Dedication of the Basilica of St Mary Major, where the icon of Salus
Populi Romani is venerated. Invoke the Mother of God, dear young
people, to feel the sweetness of her love; pray to her in moments of the
cross and of suffering, dear sick people, especially you, Angels of
Liberty of Syracuse; look to her, dear newlyweds,
as the model of your marital journey of devotion and fidelity.
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