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Pagi-pagi sudah tengok. Tengok apa yah…. Tengok apa saja boleh. Kalau akutengok berita di koran. 

Ya koran. Koran yang menggoda bak gadis cantik. Koran itu membuatku duduk sebentar dan membuka halaman demi halaman. Nah koran ini membuat saya kecanduan. Candu untuk duduk.

Kalau sudah duduk, berat untuk berdiri. Bisa berdiri jika semua halaman sudah terlihat. Kadang-kadang kalau ada berita menarik numpang sebentar. Baca dulu. Yang lain tinggal melihat judulnya saja.

Meski waktu untuk membaca koran ada. Biasanya setelah makan siang dan malam. Ini waktu yang saya sediakan. Sambil menunggu makanan masuk ke perut, mata dan otak bekerja.

Membuka halaman koran dan membaca isinya. Satu per satu akhirnya tuntas. Kalau pun belum masih ada waktu setelah makan malam atau sore hari.

Tetapi koran itu tetap saja menggoda. Mengulur waktu di pagi hari gara-garakepengen membaca koran. Okelah mau membaca. Tidak dilarang. Tetapi perhatikan juga waktunya. Pagi hari adalah waktu untuk bekerja. Mengerjakan tugas utama.

Pagi-pagi sudah tengok. Tengok berita. Padahal masih banyak anak-anak dan pemuda dewasa di daerah terpencil yang tidak membaca koran. Jangankan koran bahan bacaan lain saja susah didapat. Buku bacaan tidak ada. Majalah juga tidak ada. Kalau pun ada ya bekas saja.

Tetapi yang lebih parah adalah mereka yang tidak punya niat untuk membaca. Ini berbahaya. Ada koran dan buku bacaan pun belum tentu mereka baca.

Yang penting adalah niat untuk membaca. Kalau niat ini ada, bacaan dan koran pun akan dicari sampai dapat. Niat membaca ini seperti candu rokok. Berapa pun harganya, perokok candu ini akan membelinya.

Andai pecandu rokok di negeri ini sekaligus juga pecandu baca, tidak ada lagi labelmasyarakat buta huruf. Semua bisa membaca. Bisa mengembangkan wawasan berpikir.

PA, 5/1/13
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Pagi-pagiSudah Ditengok….

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Untung sekali malam ini saya membuka email. Biasanya memang saya jarang mengecek email. 

Ada dua email yang saya pakai. Satu yahoo dan satu google. Yahoo sering dicek karena ini email yang sering digunakan. Apalagi kompasiana juga memakai email ini.

Google dibuat karena yahoo tidak bisa mengirim file yang agak besar. Lama kelamaan google ini dipakai untuk mengirim file yang besar. Juga untuk mengirim pesan ke sahabat dan teman yang mempunyai akun google.

Enam hari lalu saya mengirim email kepada seorang sahabat. Saya meneleeponnya setelah mengirim. Dia pun menjanjikan akan mengecek.

Rupanya dia lupa mengecek. Saya menunggu email konfirmasi tetapi tidak ada. Saya mengira terjadi kesalahan tetapi tidak menemukan kesalahan. Hari ini saya berniat untuk mengecek. Dan ternyata benar. Ada pesan di kotak masuk. Pesan dari dia. Ternyata file yang saya lampirkan hilang.

Hari ini kami dipertemukan lagi. Dia mengecek duluan dan saya kemudian. Saya melengkapi file yang diminta.

Beruntung cepat dicek. Kalau tidak, saya dan dia kewalahan. Saya mungkin yang paling kewalahan. Sebab, tidak lama lagi file itu akan dijadikan bahan untuk didiskusikan. Penting sekali mengecek email setiap hari.

PA, 4/1/13
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Kami rakyat kecil
Semula kami bingung
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Kalian datang membawa janji pengharapan

Kalian akan sejahtera
Kalian akan menikmati biaya pendidikan
Kalian akan mendapat sumbangan
Jalan-jalan desa diaspal
Kelak kalian akan menjual hasil tanam ke kota

Demikian sebagian janji kalian
Kami ingat janji itu
Kami mengharapkan janji itu
Kami berpikir memang itu akan jadi nyata

Sekian lama kami menunggu
Janji itu tidak ada hasilnya
Kalian ternyata mengajari kami mengobral janji
Kalian bilang kami akan bekerja untuk kalian
Nyatanya kalian selalu bepergian ke luar kota dan keluar negeri

Kami kadang-kadang kesal dengan perilaku kalian
Mentang-mentang sudah ada jaminan gajinya
Seenaknya saja bepergian ke mana-mana
Kami terpaksa melabeli kalian pengisap uang rakyat
Menghabiskan uang rakyat

Kami rakyat bekerja sampai berkeringat
Lalu kami diberi formulir pengisian pajak
Kami membayar pajak
Kami taat pada peraturan negara
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Tetapi mengapa kalian menghabiskan uang untuk bepergian ke mana-mana?

Kami tetap bekerja di kebun sewaktu liburan
Kalian entah mengerjakan apa
Jangan-jangan bepergian ke mana-mana
Membawa mobil dan menabrak orang

Yang jelas kami tahu
Kalian bisa menambah jadwal liburan
Hari pertama seuasai libur kalian tidak ada

Jangan mengajari kami untuk mengorupsi waktu

PA, 4/1/13
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Selamat jalan…..

PA, 3/1/13
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Banjir menjadi bahaya yang sering melanda warga Indonesia. Di berbagai daerah warga mengalami bencana ini. Menjadi aneh karena banjir terjadi bukan hanya dikota tetapi juga di daerah. Mengapa semua ini terjadi? 

Banjir menjadi tanda sekaligus rambu bahwa alam Indonesia sudah rusak parah. Kita mulai dengan banjir di Jakarta. Penyebabnya di sini banyak. Yang jelas terlihat adalah masalah sampah. Sampah menyumbat semua saluran air. Juga tanah yang dilapisi beton dan semen.

Selain itu banjir di Jakrta disebabkan oleh tidak adanya resapan air di daerah puncak. Air dari puncak mengalir tanpa meresap di tanah. Di puncak tanah resapan berkurang. Di mana-mana ada semen dan beton. Vila, penginapan, dan hotel dibangun di mana-mana.
Banjir bukan hanya di Jakarta. KOMPAS hari ini mewartakan banjir di beberapa kota.
Paling tidak di empat pulau. Jawa di Bojonegoro, Jawa Timur, Kalimantan di Jalan Trans-Kalimantan, Sumatera di Aceh dan Sulawesi di Makasar. Empat daerah ini berada di 4 dari 5 pulau besar di Indonesia.

Saya kira sudah cukup bukti untuk mengatakan alam Indonesia sudah rusak parah. Kita belum bicara soal alam di bawah laut. Tetapi di darat kita sudah lihat dengan mata kepala sendiri.

Tambang minyak bumi dan batu bara serta perusahaan kelapa sawit masih menyebar di mana-mana. Kita tidak terlalu berani mengatakan bahwa beberapa hal ini menajdi penyebab rusaknya alam. Tetapi dari hasilnya kita sudah melihat. Bekas daerah tambang menyisakan lobang menganga yang tak bisa digunakan lagi.

Jadi, tunggu bukti apa lagi untuk menanggulangi bahaya rusaknya alam Indonesia? Kita semua terpanggil untuk menjaga alam ini. Rasanya terlambat untuk melempar kesalahan kepada para pengusaha tambang dan kelapa sawit.

Yang mendesak sekarang ini adalah bagaimana kita menjaga alam kita. Yanggersang ditanami seuatu. Yang masih bisa ditanam kita tanam dengan berbagai jenis pohon. Yang longsor kita tanam dengan pohon penyangga. Yangtersumbat kita lancarkan. Mari bersatu menjaga alam Indonesia.

PA, 4/1/13
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Banjir: Tanda Rusaknya Alam Indonesia

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Pemerkosa! Kata yang sering muncul di media massa akhir-akhir ini. Pemerkosaanmemang marak terjadi. 

Dalam negeri juga luar negeri. India adalah salah satu negara yang terkenal dengan kasus pemerkosaan. Entah mungkin ada negara lain tetapi India sudah terkenal. Boleh jadi di tempat lain banyak juga tetapi media belum melaporkan.

Pemerkosa di India itu keterlaluan. Jumlahnya lebih dari satu. Bayangkan betapa menderitanya korban perkosaan mereka. Mahasiswi kedokteran. Bukan hanya diperkosa, mahasiswi ini juga diancam digilas bus. Apa yang dicari para pemerkosa itu?
Pemuasan nafsu seksuksual? Harta? Ataukah ada dendam kesumat?

Mengikuti perkembangan beritanya, kasus ini berkategori kriminal. Boleh jadi ada alasan lain selain hanya mau memerkosa dan mengambil harta benda korban. Seburuk itukah pengamanan di India?

Sebenarnya bukan hanya di India. Kasus pemerkosaan bisa terjadi di mana saja.Kapan saja. Oleh karena itu, setiap orang perlu waspada.

Korban paling banyak adalah kaum hawa. Banyak tips yang ada untuk menghindari kasus seperti ini. Tinggal saja pilih yang sesuai. Perlu kenal situasi dan kondisi. Sebab, satu jurus tak mungkin berlaku untuk semua.

Tetapi pesan untuk kaum adam adalah jangan jadi pemerkosa. Sekali jadi pemerkosa, akan ketagihan untuk melakukan hal yang sama. Setelah itu, siap-siaplah masuk penjara. Atau kena hukuman yang setimpal. Kalau pihak korban menuntut untuk dihukum mati, siap-siaplah. Segala bentuk kejahatan ada hukumannya.

PA, 3/1/13
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Hukuman Mati Untuk Pemerkosa?



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Aku akan berontak 
Aku marah Tuhan
Mengapa hujan ini turun terus
Tidakkah Engkau tahu kami mau pulang ke rumah?

Kami tidak punya mobil seperti orang kaya
Kami hanya punya sepeda motor
Kami basah jika hujan tak henti
Kalau kami punya mobil kami tidak basah.

Tuhan hentikan hujan ini
Kami mau pulang
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Kami memang tak pernah puas dengan pemberian-Mu
Waktu kemarau kami minta hujan
Waktu turun hujan kami minta musim kering.

Ada-ada saja permintaan kami
Kami kadang-kadang manja pada-Mu Tuhan.

Bantulah kami Tuhan memaknai pemberian-Mu.
Buatlah kami merasa puas dan cukup dengan apa yang ada.

PA, 2/1/13
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MESSAGE OF HIS HOLINESS POPE FRANCIS
FOR THE THIRTEENTH WORLD YOUTH DAY 

2015



Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God (Mt 5: 8)

Dear Young Friends,
We continue our spiritual pilgrimage toward Krakow, where in July 2016 the next international World Youth Day will be held. As our guide for the journey we have chosen the Beatitudes. Last year we reflected on the beatitude of the poor in spirit, within the greater context of the Sermon on the Mount. Together we discovered the revolutionary meaning of the Beatitudes and the powerful summons of Jesus to embark courageously upon the exciting quest for happiness. This year we will reflect on the sixth beatitude: “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God” (Mt 5:8).

1. The desire for happiness
The word “blessed”, or “happy”, occurs nine times in this, Jesus’ first great sermon (cf. Mt 5:1-12). It is like a refrain reminding us of the Lord’s call to advance together with him on a road which, for all its many challenges, leads to true happiness.
Dear young friends, this search for happiness is shared by people of all times and all ages. God has placed in the heart of every man and woman an irrepressible desire for happiness, for fulfillment. Have you not noticed that your hearts are restless, always searching for a treasure which can satisfy their thirst for the infinite?

The first chapters of the Book of Genesis show us the splendid “beatitude” to which we are called. It consists in perfect communion with God, with others, with nature, and with ourselves. To approach God freely, to see him and to be close to him, was part of his plan for us from the beginning; his divine light was meant to illumine every human relationship with truth and transparency. In the state of original purity, there was no need to put on masks, to engage in ploys or to attempt to conceal ourselves from one another. Everything was clear and pure.

When Adam and Eve yielded to temptation and broke off this relationship of trusting communion with God, sin entered into human history (cf. Gen 3). The effects were immediately evident, within themselves, in their relationship with each other and with nature. And how dramatic the effects are! Our original purity as defiled. From that time on, we were no longer capable of closeness to God. Men and women began to conceal themselves, to cover their nakedness. Lacking the light which comes from seeing the Lord, they saw everything around them in a distorted fashion, myopically. The inner compass which had guided them in their quest for happiness lost its point of reference, and the attractions of power, wealth, possessions, and a desire for pleasure at all costs, led them to the abyss of sorrow and anguish.

In the Psalms we hear the heartfelt plea which mankind makes to God: “What can bring us happiness? Let the light of your face shine on us, O Lord” (Ps 4:7). The Father, in his infinite goodness, responded to this plea by sending his Son. In Jesus, God has taken on a human face. Through his Incarnation, life, death and resurrection, Jesus frees us from sin and opens new and hitherto unimaginable horizons.

Dear young men and women, in Christ you find fulfilled your every desire for goodness and happiness. He alone can satisfy your deepest longings, which are so often clouded by deceptive worldly promises. As Saint John Paul II said: “He is the beauty to which you are so attracted; it is he who provokes you with that thirst for fullness that will not let you settle for compromise; it is he who urges you to shed the masks of a false life; it is he who reads in your hearts your most genuine choices, the choices that others try to stifle. It is Jesus who stirs in you the desire to do something great with your lives” (cf.Discourse at the Prayer Vigil at Tor Vergata, 19 August 2000: Insegnamenti XXIII/2, [2000], 212).

2. Blessed are the pure in heart…
Let us now try to understand more fully how this blessedness comes about through purity of heart. First of all, we need to appreciate the biblical meaning of the word heart. In Hebrew thought, the heart is the centre of the emotions, thoughts and intentions of the human person. Since the Bible teaches us that God does not look to appearances, but to the heart (cf. 1 Sam 16:7), we can also say that it is from the heart that we see God. This is because the heart is really the human being in his or her totality as a unity of body and soul, in his or her ability to love and to be loved.

As for the definition of the word pure, however, the Greek word used by the evangelist Matthew is katharos, which basically means clean, pure, undefiled. In the Gospel we see Jesus reject a certain conception of ritual purity bound to exterior practices, one which forbade all contact with things and people (including lepers and strangers) considered impure. To the Pharisees who, like so many Jews of their time, ate nothing without first performing ritual ablutions and observing the many traditions associated with cleansing vessels, Jesus responds categorically: “There is nothing outside a man which by going into him can defile him; but the things which come out of a man are what defile him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, fornication, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, foolishness” (Mk 7:15, 21-22).

In what, then, does the happiness born of a pure heart consist? From Jesus’ list of the evils which make someone impure, we see that the question has to do above all with the area of our relationships. Each one of us must learn to discern what can “defile” his or her heart and to form his or her conscience rightly and sensibly, so as to be capable of “discerning the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect” (Rom 12:2). We need to show a healthy concern for creation, for the purity of our air, water and food, but how much more do we need to protect the purity of what is most precious of all: our heart and our relationships. This “human ecology” will help us to breathe the pure air that comes from beauty, from true love, and from holiness.

Once I asked you the question: “Where is your treasure? In what does your heart find its rest?” (cf. Interview with Young People from Belgium, 31 March 2014). Our hearts can be attached to true or false treasures, they can find genuine rest or they can simply slumber, becoming lazy and lethargic. The greatest good we can have in life is our relationship with God. Are you convinced of this? Do you realize how much you are worth in the eyes of God? Do you know that you are loved and welcomed by him unconditionally, as indeed you are? Once we lose our sense of this, we human beings become an incomprehensible enigma, for it is the knowledge that we are loved unconditionally by God which gives meaning to our lives. Do you remember the conversation that Jesus had with the rich young man (cf. Mk 10:17-22)? The evangelist Mark observes that the Lord looked upon him and loved him (v. 21), and invited him to follow him and thus to find true riches. I hope, dear young friends, that this loving gaze of Christ will accompany each of you throughout life.

Youth is a time of life when your desire for a love which is genuine, beautiful and expansive begins to blossom in your hearts. How powerful is this ability to love and to be loved! Do not let this precious treasure be debased, destroyed or spoiled. That is what happens when we start to use our neighbours for our own selfish ends, even as objects of pleasure. Hearts are broken and sadness follows upon these negative experiences. I urge you: Do not be afraid of true love, the love that Jesus teaches us and which Saint Paul describes as “patient and kind”. Paul says: “Love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Cor 13:4-8).

In encouraging you to rediscover the beauty of the human vocation to love, I also urge you to rebel against the widespread tendency to reduce love to something banal, reducing it to its sexual aspect alone, deprived of its essential characteristics of beauty, communion, fidelity and responsibility. Dear young friends, “in a culture of relativism and the ephemeral, many preach the importance of ‘enjoying’ the moment. They say that it is not worth making a life-long commitment, making a definitive decision, ‘for ever’, because we do not know what tomorrow will bring. I ask you, instead, to be revolutionaries, I ask you to swim against the tide; yes, I am asking you to rebel against this culture that sees everything as temporary and that ultimately believes you are incapable of responsibility, that believes you are incapable of true love. I have confidence in you and I pray for you. Have the courage to ‘swim against the tide’. And also have the courage to be happy” (Meeting with the Volunteers of the XXVIII Word Youth Day, 28 July 2013).

You young people are brave adventurers! If you allow yourselves to discover the rich teachings of the Church on love, you will discover that Christianity does not consist of a series of prohibitions which stifle our desire for happiness, but rather a project for life capable of captivating our hearts.

3. …for they shall see God
In the heart of each man and woman, the Lord’s invitation constantly resounds: “Seek my face!” (Ps 27:8). At the same time, we must always realize that we are poor sinners. For example, we read in the Book of Psalms: “Who can climb the mountain of the Lord? Who shall stand in his holy place? The one who has clean hands and a pure heart” (Ps 24:3-4). But we must never be afraid or discouraged: throughout the Bible and in the history of each one of us we see that it is always God who takes the first step. He purifies us so that we can come into his presence.

When the prophet Isaiah heard the Lord’s call to speak in his name, he was terrified and said: “Woe is me! For I am lost; for I am a man of unclean lips” (Is 6:5). And yet the Lord purified him, sending to him an angel who touched his lips, saying: “Your guilt is taken away, and your sin is forgiven” (v. 7). In the New Testament, when on the shores of lake Genessaret Jesus called his first disciples and performed the sign of the miraculous catch of fish, Simon Peter fell at his feet, exclaiming: “Depart from me, for I am a sinful man, O Lord” (Lk 5:8). Jesus’ reply was immediate: “Do not be afraid; henceforth you will be fishers of men” (v. 10). And when one of the disciples of Jesus asked him: “Lord, show us the Father, and we shall be satisfied”, the Master replied: “He who has seen me has seen the Father (Jn 14:8-9).

The Lord’s invitation to encounter him is made to each of you, in whatever place or situation you find yourself. It suffices to have the desire for “a renewed personal encounter with Jesus Christ, or at least an openness to letting him encounter you; I ask all of you to do this unfailingly each day” (cf. Evangelii Gaudium, 3). We are all sinners, needing to be purified by the Lord. But it is enough to take a small step towards Jesus to realize that he awaits us always with open arms, particularly in the sacrament of Reconciliation, a privileged opportunity to encounter that divine mercy which purifies us and renews our hearts.

Dear young people, the Lord wants to meet us, to let himself “be seen” by us. “And how?”, you might ask me. Saint Teresa of Avila, born in Spain five hundred years ago, even as a young girl, said to her parents, “I want to see God”. She subsequently discovered the way of prayer as “an intimate friendship with the One who makes us feel loved” (Autobiography, 8,5). So my question to you is this: “Are you praying?” Do you know that you can speak with Jesus, with the Father, with the Holy Spirit, as you speak to a friend? And not just any friend, but the greatest and most trusted of your friends! You will discover what one of his parishioners told the Curé of Ars: “When I pray before the tabernacle, ‘I look at him, and he looks at me’” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2715).

Once again I invite you to encounter the Lord by frequently reading sacred Scripture. If you are not already in the habit of doing so, begin with the Gospels. Read a line or two each day. Let God’s word speak to your heart and enlighten your path (cf. Ps 119:105). You will discover that God can be “seen” also in the face of your brothers and sisters, especially those who are most forgotten: the poor, the hungry, those who thirst, strangers, the sick, those imprisoned (cf. Mt 25:31-46). Have you ever had this experience? Dear young people, in order to enter into the logic of the Kingdom of Heaven, we must recognize that we are poor with the poor. A pure heart is necessarily one which has been stripped bare, a heart that knows how to bend down and share its life with those most in need.

Encountering God in prayer, the reading of the Bible and in the fraternal life will help you better to know the Lord and yourselves. Like the disciples on the way to Emmaus (cf. Lk 24:13-35), the Lord’s voice will make your hearts burn within you. He will open your eyes to recognize his presence and to discover the loving plan he has for your life.
Some of you feel, or will soon feel, the Lord’s call to married life, to forming a family. Many people today think that this vocation is “outdated”, but that is not true! For this very reason, the ecclesial community has been engaged in a special period of reflection on the vocation and the mission of the family in the Church and the contemporary world. I also ask you to consider whether you are being called to the consecrated life or the priesthood. How beautiful it is to see young people who embrace the call to dedicate themselves fully to Christ and to the service of his Church! Challenge yourselves, and with a pure heart do not be afraid of what God is asking of you! From your “yes” to the Lord’s call, you will become new seeds of hope in the Church and in society. Never forget: God’s will is our happiness!

4. On the way to Krakow
“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God” (Mt 5:8). Dear young men and women, as you see, this beatitude speaks directly to your lives and is a guarantee of your happiness. So once more I urge you: Have the courage to be happy!

This year’s World Youth Day begins the final stage of preparations for the great gathering of young people from around the world in Krakow in 2016. Thirty years ago Saint John Paul II instituted World Youth Days in the Church. This pilgrimage of young people from every continent under the guidance of the Successor of Peter has truly been a providential and prophetic initiative. Together let us thank the Lord for the precious fruits which these World Youth Days have produced in the lives of countless young people in every part of the globe! How many amazing discoveries have been made, especially the discovery that Christ is the Way, the Truth and the Life! How many people have realized that the Church is a big and welcoming family! How many conversions, how many vocations have these gatherings produced! May the saintly Pope, the Patron of World Youth Day, intercede on behalf of our pilgrimage toward his beloved Krakow. And may the maternal gaze of the Blessed Virgin Mary, full of grace, all-beautiful and all-pure, accompany us at every step along the way.

From the Vatican, 31 January 2015
Memorial of Saint John Bosco
FRANCIS

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PRM, 5/02/15
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Jesus is the Master

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Jesus is the master, the teacher. He teaches with his heart. He teaches like someone that has much knowledge. Yes, Jesus has many things to teach, knowledge, wise, and so on. Many people like his teaching. Jesus—in this context—is the winner of all teachers. But, Jesus did not seek the popular.

Jesus knows the culture, the habits of the Hebrew, namely go to the synagogue only the Sabbath, Saturday. Jesus goes there and reads the Scripture. Like the others preacher, Jesus reads and interprets the bible. He interprets it in the actual context. Not like the others preacher that interpret literally.

Jesus also teaches with the authority. The authority is the grace of His Father. His Father gives him his grace to tell us how to teach the others. Teaching means give love to the others. Teaching means give heart to the others. I give my heart, my love for my students at Santa Cristina church.

The fathers and the mothers have given this love for us, their children. They know what we need, what we want. They give all the love and understanding. So, Jesus invited us to be the master. The master gives his love, his heart, his understanding for his pupil, his students.

We can be the master of the others. We teach the others. We give our love, our understanding, our heart to the others. Here, the love born.

More than the way of teaching, Jesus teaches us to give the time for God. Pray always. Jesus prays for his Father. Jesus always is in the contact with his Father. This is the praying. Praying is staying with God, hear his voice, speak in silent with Him, and so on. We can define in many definitions, but the point is to stay with Him, stay with God. It’s like abstract but we can do in real context. We pray with our friends after doing one work. We can pray with our friends after sharing our life, sharing our happiness, sharing our sadness.

I thank Jesus today
You give us this grace
You give us your love
You give us your understanding

Lets we walk in your way
Lets we teach with your heart
Lets we share your love
Give us the strength to understand your love

Happy Sunday.

Prm, 2/2/15
Gordi





GENERAL AUDIENCE POPE FRANCIS
Paul VI Audience Hall
Wednesday, 28 January 2015


The family - 3. The father

Dear Brothers and Sisters, Good morning!
Let us resume the series of catecheses on the family. Today we shall take the word “father” as our guide. It is a term dearer than any other to us Christians because it is the name by which Jesus taught us to call God: father. The meaning of this name took on new depth from the very way Jesus used it to turn to God and to manifest his special relationship with Him. The blessed mystery of God’s intimacy, Father, Son and Spirit revealed by Jesus, is the heart of our Christian faith.

“Father” is a term familiar to everyone, a universal word. It indicates a fundamental relationship, the reality of which is as old as human history. Today, however, one has reached the point of claiming that our society is a “society without fathers”. In other words, particularly in Western culture, the father figure would be symbolically absent, paled, removed. At first, this was perceived as a liberation: liberation from the father-master, from the father as the representative of the law that is imposed from without, from the father as the censor of his children’s happiness and the obstacle to the emancipation and autonomy of young people. At times in some homes authoritarianism reigned in the past, in some cases even oppression: parents who treated their children like servants, not respecting their individual needs for growth; fathers who did not help them to start out on their journey with freedom — and it is not easy to bring up a child in freedom —; fathers who did not help them assume their own responsibilities to build their future and that of society.

This, certainly, is not a good approach; but, as often happens, one goes from one extreme to the other. In our day, the problem no longer seems to be the invasive presence of the father so much as his absence, his inaction. Fathers are sometimes so concentrated on themselves and on their work and at times on their career that they even forget about the family. And they leave the little ones and the young ones to themselves. As Bishop of Buenos Aires I sensed the feeling of orphanhood that children are experiencing today, and I often asked fathers if they played with their children, if they had the courage and love to spend time with their kids. And the answer was negative in most cases: “But I can’t, because I have so much work...”. And the father was absent from the little child growing up, he did not play with him, no, he did not waste time with him.

Now, on this common journey of reflection on the family, I would like to say to all Christian communities that we must be more attentive: the absent father figure in the life of little ones and young people causes gaps and wounds that may even be very serious. And, in effect, delinquency among children and adolescents can be largely attributed to this lack, to the shortage of examples and authoritative guidance in their everyday life, a shortage of closeness, a shortage of love from the father. And the feeling of orphanhood that so many young people live with is more profound than we think.

They are orphaned in the family, because the father is often absent, also physically, from the home, but above all because, when they are present, they do not behave like fathers. They do not converse with their children. They do not fulfill their role as educators. They do not set their children a good example with their words, principles, values, those rules of life which they need like bread. The educative quality of the time the father spends raising the child is all the more necessary when he is forced to stay away from home because of work. Sometimes it seems that fathers don’t know what their role in the family is or how to raise their children. So, in doubt, they abstain, they retreat and neglect their responsibilities, perhaps taking refuge in the unlikely relationship as “equals” with their children. It’s true that you have to be a “companion” to your child, but without forgetting that you are the father! If you behave only as a peer to your child, it will do him/her no good.

And we also see this problem in the civil community. The civil community with its institutions, has a certain — let’s call it paternal — responsibility towards young people, a responsibility that at times is neglected or poorly exercised. It too often leaves them orphaned and does not offer them a true perspective. Young people are thus deprived of safe paths to follow, of teachers to trust in, of ideals to warm their hearts, of values and of hopes to sustain them daily. They become filled perhaps with idols but their hearts are robbed; they are obliged to dream of amusement and pleasure but they are not given work; they become deluded by the god of money, and they are denied true wealth.

And so it would do everyone good, fathers and children, to listen again to the promise that Jesus made to his disciples: “I will not leave you orphans” (cf. Jn 14:18). He is, indeed, the Way to follow, the Teacher to listen to, the Hope that the world can change, that love conquers hatred, that there can be a future of brotherhood and peace for all. One of you might say to me: “But Father, today you were too negative. You only spoke about the absent father, what happens when fathers are not close to their children.... “It’s true, I wanted to stress this, because next Wednesday I am going to continue this catechesis by highlighting the beauty of fatherhood. That is why I chose to start from the darkness, in order to reach the light. May the Lord help us understand these things better .



Special Greetings
I greet the English-speaking pilgrims and visitors attending today’s Audience, including the various student groups from England and the United States of America. Upon you and your families I cordially invoke the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus. God bless you all!

I address a special thought to the young people, to the sick and to newlyweds. Today we are celebrating the memorial of St Thomas Aquinas, Doctor of the Church. May his dedication to study, foster in you, dear young people, a commitment to understand and a desire to serve the Gospel; may his faith show you, dear sick people, to turn to the Lord also in times of trial; may his mildness show you, dear newlyweds, the manner of relating between spouses within the family.

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